I recently read your article The Invisible Divorce. I think my situation is very similar. My husband and I are married more than 25 years. He does not abuse me physically but his comments (which he thinks are funny) are very hurtful because he has a short temper. We still have feelings for each other, so I am not planning to divorce him. It is extremely difficult to convince him to see a marriage counselor. But I feel like I am tired of this life. How can I make a change? I’m sorry to hear about your difficult situation, though it is one that many South Asians couples experience so you are certainly not alone. Continue reading >> Ask a question